Ask SingleDad offers men and women who are divorced and dating solutions to their often-difficult dating questions. This week’s question: Should I Tell My Best Friend About His Cheating Fiancé?
Should I Tell
My Best Friend About His Cheating Fiancé?
best friend, who’s only been divorced 2 years, just told me that he is engaged.
Problem is, I know his fiancé cheated on him 6 months ago. I never thought they’d
get married, so I kept quiet about it. I am a Divorced Dad due to a cheating
spouse and I don’t want to see what’s happened to me, happen to him down the
road… Do I spill the beans now?
What up Chuck,
questions are so difficult to answer because a friendship is involved and
sometimes it can be ruined if your friend happens to remain with her, even
after you’ve "spilled the beans". Based on the limited info in front of me, I say "step up" and
have no doubt and have hard proof of her infidelity, then yeah, speak up. You’ll
break your buddy’s heart but you may have saved him a lifetime of heartache and
resentment. Just be ready to be there to support him if things get a little
messy during the breakup process.
me posted on this,
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